Singaporean Social Escorts Versus Sugar Babies – Which Is Better?

If you are looking for a no strings attached relationship in Singapore, should you look for a social escort or a sugar baby?

There are lots of advantages and disadvantages when it comes to each of the dating choice that you have. However, due to every one’s different requirements and desires, one form of dating is usually more beneficial to you over the other.

Really, the ideal choice that you should go for depends. With that said, let us perhaps go through some of the most common advantages and disadvantages of each type of dating in Singapore below!

Advantages of using social escort services

  1. First of all, it is fuss and hassle free.

    When it comes to social escorts, most of the times there is no need to chat up the girl. This is because in Singapore, the local Singaporean scene is largely and heavily dominated by top agencies. One of the largest agencies in Singapore which is highly recommended is SG VIP services. The good news about most agencies is that because you are dealing with the middle person. You are not chatting up a girl. This means straightaway business – ask for whom you want, when you want and where you want to meet her. Done. Time to meet.

  2. Second of all, while standard verification details are a must for all escorts worldwide, you need not send them photos.

    Most sugar babies on sugar dating websites will not bother meeting you unless you also show them how you look. This means it is compulsory for you to send them your photos or selfie on top of your personal details. As mentioned, because most Singaporeans escorts work only with agencies instead of by themselves, agencies only require standard verification details. Photos are almost never a requirement.

  3. Third of all, social escorts do not require a monthly commitment.

    Sugar babies seldom agree to an arrangement unless there is a monthly fixed time and financial commitment from you. However, the main reason many men turn to dating alternatives such as social escorts and sugar babies is because there is no need for commitment! Pay per meet and no strings attached is about as good as it gets – and you get that with social escorts.

  4. The quality of social escorts are usually verified and stable – as long as you stick to reputable agencies.

    While there are some (defunct) agencies which used to scam clients, they tend not to be around for long. Those which are still around are usually fine. Escort agencies usually have a number of girls with them, and they have no incentive to recommend you a bad reviewed social escort. On the other hand, a sugar baby makes no money if she recommends another girl to you. So they tend to overexaggerate how great they are.

Disadvantages:

  • Unfortunately, not every agency or website is still functioning.

    If you looked around the Internet, you will realize that only a few websites are truly kicking and alive, and only the largest ones are still thriving and refreshed with new escorts all the time.

  • While bigger agencies have lots of options, when it comes to independent escorts in Singapore, your choices are very few.

    There is only one who is more established РRisqu̩ Rebeccca. Other than that, most independent escorts who claim to be Singaporean are 99% of the time actually from China, Vietnam or Thailand who look nothing like their advertised photographs. If you want to date a social escort, I recommend you stick to a large agency like SG VIP Escorts or if you prefer an independent, Rebecca is an option too!

Advantages of finding a sugar baby

  1. If you are very free, then going for a sugar baby might be a more economical option per hour.

    This is because most sugar babies charge you a monthly commitment or allowance, and hence are willing to go much cheaper. You are actually paying less per hour with the sugar baby than social escorts. As mentioned above, this comes at the heavy cost of time which I will talk more about below in the disadvantages section.

  2. You can arrange for semi or full exclusivity options as well.

    If you prefer more commitment than an escort, but less commitment than a girlfriend, then sugar dating is a great option for you! – though this usually heavily depends on how much money you are willing to put into the arrangement.

Disadvantages:

  • It can be a very time consuming task to look for a serious sugar baby.

    Most girls (and even the sugar daddies) hop onto sugar dating websites purely out of curiosity. Only a small handful are there for business. This means you need to sift through hundreds of Singaporean sugar baby profiles to find active ones, and then chat them up.

  • You will still need to chat up these girls as though you were on any other dating sites.

    Some ghost you, while others do not reply. Not all do not reply because they do not like you, some do not reply because their profile is already inactive. Among those that you chat up, you will still need to convince them to meet you. This is more time consuming than looking for a social escort, who is usually more keen for fast and hassle-free business. Of course, this also depends from escort to escort and agency to agency.

  • Most demand that you send them your photos as well, or they simply will not reply you.

    For the privacy conscious, your name is usually not sufficient. Many of them demand for photos or will ignore you until you send.

  • Because there is no middleman vetting these girls, the quality of these girls are usually not consistent on sugar dating websites.

    This means if you are used to a very hot and great sugar baby, you may never be able to find another ever again in your whole life.

Conclusion:

One of the biggest fears that some men have is that the girl ends up being clingy or grow long term emotional connections when they are only looking strictly for no strings attached relationships. Social escorts become social escorts with local agencies because they have zero intention of getting together for the long term with their clients. If you want a true no strings attached relationship, then social escorts your best choice. Sugar babies are your second best choice because some tend to grow emotionally attached.

If you want to look for a real social escort, here are some tips in my previous post to help you find a real social escort in Singapore who looks like her photos easily instead of you getting scammed!

If you are going for sugar babies, you might want to check out sites such as Seeking or The Sugar Book.

How To Book A Social Escort In Singapore Even If It Is Your First Time

If this is the first time you are ordering social escort services in Singapore, do not panic! Stay calm, and read on.

Ordering a social escort in Singapore is easy… If you follow these steps.

Step 1: Think about the type of escort you would like to meet

Do you want to meet a younger escort in her young 20s? Or a more mature one in her late 20s? Do you prefer slimmer girls or thicker girls? Are you a fan of local Singaporean girls too? Or do you prefer foreigners?

Everyone has different preferences, so you want to take your time and think through first.

Step 2: Google for “social escorts in Singapore”

Social escorts do not have office spaces or retail spaces in which you can visit them. These offices simply has never existed before in Singapore, and likely, never will. This is however good news for you if you know how to use Google. A quick 10 seconds search on Google.com.sg will quickly bring you up a list of social escorts in Singapore. Some of these websites are belonging to agencies, while others are independent escort directories.

First of all, you want to note that most escort websites in Singapore are no longer operational and out of business. Therefore, you want to get a list of escort websites, and simply message them ‘Hello’. If they respond back, good, otherwise, kick them out of your decision choice.

Second of all, you want to note that Singaporean escorts hang out at agencies, whereas foreign models hang out at directories and have their own websites. This is definitely the case in Singapore.

Step 3: Among those who are still operating, look through the website and see the choices that you have

Most Singapore’s escort agency websites and directories all have photographs of the said escorts or themselves. This means that you can browse through roughly first, and then shortlist even further among these active websites.

Once you have shortlisted perhaps 1 to 3 websites, then move on to the next step.

Step 4: Contact these escort agencies for the availability of your preferred escorts

You are strongly recommended to pick a few escorts whom you are comfortable meeting. Most escorts do not work full time, and so if you are too picky, finding a girl is impossible. Pick a few escorts with whom you are keen to meet with, and check their availabilities with the agency.

If you are contacting an independent, then ask her for her availability.

You are strongly recommended to stick to escort agencies in SG if you truly want an escort who looks like her photographs. Agencies are far more reputable than the independent girls working in Singapore.

Step 5: Decide on the date, meet time and location before hiring an escort

Singaporean escorts and agencies are notorious for shutting down and not replying clients if you do not provide the above details, and whatever else verification details they may require from you.

When you contact the agency or the independent, make sure to provide them with the date, time and location, or chances are, your message will not even be bothered to be responded to.

Step 6: They will advise you on availability, and then you make a decision to book!

It really is that easy to book and meet female escorts in Singapore. All you need is the above steps, and not be wishy washy or be stingy, as escorts are notoriously expensive in Singapore.

Why Do SG Girls Become Social Escorts? (3 Big Reasons In Singapore)

In today’s article of looking into Singapore’s social escort industry further, we investigate the most common reasons why Singaporean girls become escorts in Singapore. While every girl has her own reasons, these are found to be some of the most common and overlapping reasons that we have found from interviewing the escorts.

Singapore girls become escorts to pay off their massive school loans quickly

First of all, they need to pay their university or school loans off. This is much more common that you may think so. With so much pressure on children to work hard and study hard and excel academically in Singapore, even though academic excellence does not always translate to career success, Singaporean girls put a high significance on studies. This means going for further studies by any means possible. In fact, many of them view it as compulsory, rather than something additional.

Unfortunately, some girls will definitely come from poor families, simply due to statistics. Therefore, these girls do not have the financial support from their parents, unlike those from well-off backgrounds. Therefore, they turn to escort work to support themselves.

SG girls want to buy luxury items!

Second of all, you may not be very surprised to hear this, but the truth is a girl would rather be seen crying in a luxury sedan with a branded handbag than to be normal on a regular public transport with a bag bought from the local wet market. Everyone aspires to some form of materialistic dreams, some just happen to be more expensive than others! Some think a $3000 Chanel bag is nice, while others think a $300 Kate Spade is good enough. The latter girl may think the former is materialistic, but there may be far poorer girls thinking that the latter girl is super materialistic! Therefore, materialism is really just a matter of ambition and personal preference.

Everyone should strive for their own version of happiness, and material possessions definitely do matter. Some girls work hard as social escorts in Singapore to eventually save up and buy luxury items for themselves. Once again, a big reason is because these girls come from less than well-to-do family households.

Some girls need to help with their parents very expensive medical bills

Third of all, some girls work hard as escorts to pay off their elderly parent’s medical bills. Even with Medisave and other financial schemes to help citizens, sometimes, some medical bills are gigantic. Unfortunately, some of the girls’ parents are unable to work anymore due to their illness or old age. Therefore, the children are unfortunate enough to be landed with such bills. However, these girls are hardworking and willing to work hard as escorts in Singapore to pay off their parents’ medical bills.

How To Find A REAL Social Escort In Singapore And Avoid Fakes

There are lots of fake escorts listing around the world, and this is the case for Singapore too! So, how do you ensure that you meet a genuine escort listing and not someone who looks nothing like her photos? The tips and tricks for this varies between country to country.

Here are some of the best tips you can follow to meet a genuine and real social escort in Singapore.

In Singapore, there are agencies and there are classified ads, or rather, independent escort listings on directory websites.

What you want to note is that most European listings on independent sites are real. Also, most Singaporean girl listings on local social escort agencies are of the actual local girls. However, most Asian or Singaporean listings on independent sites are fake.

The reason for that is because Singaporeans are very socially conservative. Singapore escorts want to hide behind the anonymity and protection of a legal and registered social escort agency. They also do not show their full faces to clients before meeting.

On the other hand, Europeans are much more open minded and show their full actual faces on independent sites.

Looking for a local Singaporean social escort?

Singaporean girl

If you want to look for a local Singaporean escort, go to agencies. Singaporean girls are socially conservative, and while they are fine with working as a social escort, they certainly do not ever want to plaster their faces all over the Internet. This is why Singaporean listings are usually at agency websites. Most agency lists provides real profiles of the actual Singaporean models. Just note that their faces are always cropped off. This is normal, as long as you stick to agencies. Those listings are real.

If you want Singaporean girls, avoid independent sites like the plague. 99 out of every 100 listings are fake, and they are usually Filipinos, Thais or Vietnamese girls pretending to be a girl who looks like a Taiwanese supermodel. Hint: This is because they do use fake photographs, not of themselves, but those stolen online from real supermodels. If you engage a ‘Singaporean’ independent escort at a cheap price, prepare to meet a 2/10 instead of the 9/10 you were looking for. They will probably be 20 kg heavier and cannot speak English well, if at all.

Looking for a European escort instead?

European girl

If you are searching for a European escort, I strongly recommend that you wait and go to Europe to look for them instead, because most of them work in Singapore under a tourist VISA. That is technically illegal under Singapore’s manpower laws, and because Singapore is well known for cracking down on illegal aliens, you just have to pray hard the girl does not get busted while you meet her, or you will be likely interrogated by the local police as well.

Life Being A Social Escort In Singapore – Is It All Glamorous?

In today’s article, we have with us Georgina (not her real name), a Singaporean social escort model who started 2 years ago and is now 24 years old. Georgina shares with us her experience thus far as an escort. It is not everyday that we manage to get a female escort to spill the beans on how her life is being a social escort in Singapore so treasure this interview!

On what the job entails

“You are basically paid to be the girlfriend of these rich men… Rich men can be lonely, some of them are locals, some are foreigners, but they always want a beautiful girl on their side,” Georgina said.

“However, before taking on an escort job, you should ask friends if you have any who are escorts. Either that or you should do your thorough research online. It is not all glamorous and all. Just like any other job, there’s great and bad clients. At the end of the day, you just accept and think about the Birkin bag you can get while still in your 20s!”

Buying luxury items can be a big reason why many Singaporean girls are turning to social escort work.

On the social stigma

“This is after all, Singapore. Not expecting any social stigma or people potentially looking at you funny if they know you are an escort is a dream. Of course, I don’t let anyone outside of my clients and the escort agency know that I work as an escort.”

Georgina says that being an escort is definitely legal in Singapore, but because of the relatively conservative culture in Singapore, there is still that social stigma. In places like Las Vegas, it would be seen as perfectly normal. No one would even bat an eyelid. It is similar to being an underwear model in an even more conservative country such as Indonesia – people will also look at you funny if they know.

“At the end of the day, we live for ourselves. I rather clear off my debts, get a good side income and buy some luxury handbags once in a while being an escort than worrying about what others think about me. This is my life anyway, not anyone else’s.”

On first time escorts

Most girls who are first time escorts or just started work as a social escort in Singapore mistake being an escort as dating. “At the end of the day, we are being paid to pretend to be someone else’s girlfriend. This means that you should not have preferences if you want the money. Some only want certain types of clients, certain race or something. Don’t forget that you could nearly instantly double your earnings if you simply dropped your preferences!”

Georgina playfully pointed at her Hermes Birkin bag while saying that.

Georgina adds on that, “There are some girls who think only about the money, and that is how they get through the ups and downs of the job of being a social escort in Singapore. However, I think that at the core, it is a customer service job. If you are the type who are uptight and cannot handle dealing with all types of clients, whether you like it or not, then don’t be a social escort.”

On dealing with clients who demand to see face photos

“All legitimate Singaporean escort girls will use censored photos. If you are seeing the full picture, you are likely going to get scammed by a foreign lady who looks nothing like the image – which is usually some stolen Googled image or stolen off someone else’s social media.”

That said, she says there will always be people asking for photos but she will not agree to send to end clients, especially those who had never booked her before.

That is actually a reason why we also wrote a post here on how you can find a real social escort in Singapore and avoid getting scammed. Singapore escort industry works differently versus that of certain Western countries.

On the earnings

Georgina feels that while on a day to day basis, the amount she earns can range drastically, she makes a very comfortable amount every month. While Georgina has declined to share her earnings, she shared that buying 1 to 2 luxury handbags or purse a month is quite an easy thing to do for her. And that is purely from her escort earnings, not including her day job (she has a flexible time day job). So how much does Georgina make a month? Go figure!

On whether if given a choice to restart, she will still be a social escort girl in Singapore again

The answer is a resounding, “Yes. But you know, I regret something. I should have had less expectations and preferences at the start. If I had less, I could have doubled the money I made initially in my first 6 to 7 months!”

So there you have it. What do you think? Are you a social escort yourself or an agency and would like to be interviewed and featured on our blog?

If so, then make sure to comment below and let us know!